Bionic Bookkeeper

‘Two or three prospective new clients call me each week. Once weā€™ve spoken on the phone weā€™ll meet up, and thatā€™s when they notice my disability for the first time. I can feel them questioning my ability over my disability and I feel I need to win them over.ā€™

After suffering a stroke at the young age of 26 Coral-Ann Mills MICB PM.Dip, who runs her own bookkeeping and accountancy business in Bedfordshire, now has what she calls her bionic leg. ā€˜Some clients are completely intrigued by it and I have to say, ā€œalright Iā€™ll give you a demo but then we really need to talk about your accounts!ā€ Others you can tell they want to ask questions but donā€™t. People have a perception of how a disability affects your work and Iā€™m always second-guessing what people expect of me.ā€™

When Coral-Ann had her son Sebastian four years ago, she made sure all of her clients’ tax returns were submitted first, and didnā€™t lose any clients. A series of modifications, elaborate work-arounds and a steep learning curve enabled Coral-Ann to care for her son. ā€˜Sebastianā€™s baby grows all had my teeth marks in them because thatā€™s how Iā€™d pick him up. He quickly learnt to be still for me but heā€™d always wriggle around with his Dad.ā€™

Coral-Ann says she ā€˜does everythingā€™ for her clients except for the final step of final submissions and the CT600s which she passes over to an accountant. She says sheā€™s thinking about taking ICBā€™s standalone Corporation Tax and FRS Modules when her son goes to school in September.

ā€˜I used to work through the night to build the foundations of my business. I wanted to grow it, to focus on myself and what I wanted to be. Now Iā€™m in a position where I can support myself and my son financially if, God forbid, anything happened to his Dad. I learnt the hard way what itā€™s like to literally not be able to stand on my own two feet and I came out fighting on the other side.

‘You’ve got to be a fighter’

ā€˜Youā€™ve got to be a fighter. Thereā€™s always someone worse off than you and you canā€™t give up. Donā€™t believe anyone elseā€™s opinions of you; the only person you can control is yourself. Some days I just want to stay in bed because Iā€™m in so much pain. But I know itā€™s not going to achieve anything.ā€™

Coral-Ann credits social media with raising awareness of disabilities and mental health issues. ā€˜There used to be this idea that you might struggle one day with how youā€™re feeling, but the next day youā€™d wake up and be fine. But people are speaking out about these issues now. After I had my stroke I didnā€™t even know my name. I couldnā€™t sit up or feed myself and, to be honest, if I didnā€™t have my partner and others around me practically supporting my every move, I probably wouldnā€™t be here. I had to find myself again, and bookkeeping helped me do that, by giving me a sense of purpose. You truly get out of life what you put in.’  

This article also appears in PQ Magazine for part-qualified accounting students as part of a campaign to raise awareness of disabilities and mental health.